Before a meetup
Keep first meetups in public places, set a precise landmark, agree on timing in chat, and do not pressure anyone to share private contact details before they are comfortable.
Use accurate descriptions. Misleading requests, false urgency, or manipulative framing are moderation issues.
During a meetup
Respect boundaries, communicate clearly, and leave if the situation stops feeling safe. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Do not threaten, intimidate, record without consent, or push for location changes that were not agreed in advance.
After a meetup
Use completion notes, reporting, and blocking if something went wrong. Reports should focus on facts, timing, and behavior rather than speculation.
Retaliation against another user for reporting or blocking is grounds for account action.